Shidduch and Zivug

In the book are stated the principles by which the Jew should be guided, creating family

table of contents

Chapter 1. HELP BETTER TODAY THAN TOMORROW TROUBLE
Who should choose a spouse?
Cautious " buyer "
Two ways to select
How to avoid the pitfalls ?
Love and rock are not omnipotent
Self-love , or true love ?
Chapter 2. EVALUATION CRITERIA AND PRINCIPLES
keen eye
goodwill
To details
The sincerity of mercy. The ability to provide more than the asking
Common sense . Understanding the unspoken needs of others . Mind.
Stability manifested merits
Your character or mock tone?
rumors foreign
Recommendations and praise
estimates friends
negative reviews
Single candidate
Search and transmission of negative information
Shades Rebecca Virtue - tact, quickness , hard work
Unselfishness . Implementation of the promised
Checked whether Eliezer B- goboyaznennost Rebecca ?
Comprehensive coverage of the subject. Following the instructions of the Torah
Chapter 3. TWO MAJOR REQUEST to the Almighty
Provide all
That which can not be foreseen
The task of the Most High - to help implement the " case "
The Power of Prayer
Search is not infinite
The hand of the Creator
The Torah in the affairs of matchmaking
Why do we need mental anguish ?
Any failure , in fact, the success -
Do not miss out on the true
beneficial lag
A special prayer for the wayward generation
Chapter 4. HEAVENLY " PROGRAMMING " MARRIAGES
"He who finds a wife - finds a good thing "
Are you worthy of his " ideal "?
The mysterious factor in the program of marriage
What is mazal !
Transfer stations starry world
Stars and zodiac signs .
The fate of the Jews .
Constellations - only executors of the will of the Creator
Exemption from the bitter fate
Fate and free choice
A "good" and " bad " fortune
Manifestations of fate in everyday life
Action fate in marriage
Unthinkable even a marriage can be successful
The desire to change the fate of
Interference in the designs of marriage
Caution - the most reliable way
" Unallocated " brides and grooms
Ask for the best , but leave the choice of the Almighty
The second marriage , your mirror
The basis of selection - compliance levels
Matrimony - organ transplants
Do you want to climb the mountain - see the top
A marriage is a fusion of souls
Become one
A complete and comprehensive warranty
Chapter 5. NOTHING IS LOST - YOU DO NOT LEFT THE CREATOR
" In what way a man wants to go, and that his conduct "
The continued support of the Most High
Chapter 6. Gd's GUIDE AFTER WEDDING
Wherever there is Torah , lives Divine Presence
Chapter 7. SOME GOOD ADVICE
Do not hope to feel attracted at the first meeting
Do not wait with the gap
Be able to make a decision
Avoid prolonged engagement
Damage matchmaking neighbor - a grave offense
Listen to the voice of the heart
be honest
Before you meet with a baal teshuva , find out whether his family divorces
Can you figure out who your real husband
Take care of your appearance
CONCLUSION . End - crowns the
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